{"id":15,"date":"2026-03-25T02:16:23","date_gmt":"2026-03-25T02:16:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/?page_id=15"},"modified":"2026-05-04T18:57:56","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T18:57:56","slug":"blog","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/?page_id=15","title":{"rendered":"Communication Sheets"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>The Behavior Iceberg (For Parents and Caregivers)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Behavior Iceberg is a simple concept designed to help parents and caregivers understand common internal experiences that can contribute to a child&#8217;s behaviors. The visual of an iceberg helps to represent that an adult can easily see the child&#8217;s behaviors (often the one&#8217;s bringing the child to therapy) but that underneath the surface is the child&#8217;s thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and experiences that drive the behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div data-wp-interactive=\"core\/file\" class=\"wp-block-file\"><object data-wp-bind--hidden=\"!state.hasPdfPreview\" hidden class=\"wp-block-file__embed\" data=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Coping-Catalog-The-Childs-Behavior-Iceberg.pdf\" type=\"application\/pdf\" style=\"width:100%;height:980px\" aria-label=\"Embed of Coping Catalog The Child&apos;s Behavior Iceberg.\"><\/object><a id=\"wp-block-file--media-728d9e59-0c8b-4800-ac5b-5689c7cb45ba\" href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Coping-Catalog-The-Childs-Behavior-Iceberg.pdf\">Coping Catalog The Child&#8217;s Behavior Iceberg<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Coping-Catalog-The-Childs-Behavior-Iceberg.pdf\" class=\"wp-block-file__button wp-element-button\" download aria-describedby=\"wp-block-file--media-728d9e59-0c8b-4800-ac5b-5689c7cb45ba\">Download<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong>I Feel Statements<\/strong> <strong>(For children, teens, parents, and adults)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the most common strategies that can support children, teens, parents, and adults in their relationships is the practice of I feel statements. The I feel statement&#8217;s worksheets listed here all provide education on you statements vs I statements, include examples of what reframing a you statement into an I statement looks like, and offers a brief practice session for reframing you statements into I statements. There are currently 3 versions of this sheet posted with descriptions below listed in order. Check back later for an adult relationship specific version coming soon!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Check the title to the left of the download button to ensure you are downloading the version you need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I feel statements for youth ages 5-12 <\/em> includes examples that are more socially relevant to children ages 5-12. This also includes an optional 2nd page of you statement examples that you can print off and cut up into a set of practice flashcards for use with children. The flashcards would go great when incorporated into a board game\/card game or another therapy activity in session where the child is asked to practice reframing the you statement into an I feel statement. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I feel statements for tweens and teens<\/em> includes examples that are more socially relevant for teens ages 12 and up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I feel statements for parents <\/em>includes examples that are socially relevant for parents and include ways to communicate concerns and feelings with I feel statement while sometimes providing a reminder about a limit they are trying to express to their child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div data-wp-interactive=\"core\/file\" class=\"wp-block-file\"><object data-wp-bind--hidden=\"!state.hasPdfPreview\" hidden class=\"wp-block-file__embed\" data=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Kids-5-12.pdf\" type=\"application\/pdf\" style=\"width:100%;height:1000px\" aria-label=\"Embed of Coping Catalog I Feel Statements for Kids 5-12.\"><\/object><a id=\"wp-block-file--media-a7ad35bd-b5b0-484c-9639-1021fde4f340\" href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Kids-5-12.pdf\">Coping Catalog I Feel Statements for Kids 5-12<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Kids-5-12.pdf\" class=\"wp-block-file__button wp-element-button\" download aria-describedby=\"wp-block-file--media-a7ad35bd-b5b0-484c-9639-1021fde4f340\">Download<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div data-wp-interactive=\"core\/file\" class=\"wp-block-file\"><object data-wp-bind--hidden=\"!state.hasPdfPreview\" hidden class=\"wp-block-file__embed\" data=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Tweens-and-Teens.pdf\" type=\"application\/pdf\" style=\"width:100%;height:1000px\" aria-label=\"Embed of Coping Catalog I Feel Statements for Tweens and Teens.\"><\/object><a id=\"wp-block-file--media-2f3cd7db-ac99-4741-9c60-52dcd45a82ee\" href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Tweens-and-Teens.pdf\">Coping Catalog I Feel Statements for Tweens and Teens<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Tweens-and-Teens.pdf\" class=\"wp-block-file__button wp-element-button\" download aria-describedby=\"wp-block-file--media-2f3cd7db-ac99-4741-9c60-52dcd45a82ee\">Download<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div data-wp-interactive=\"core\/file\" class=\"wp-block-file\"><object data-wp-bind--hidden=\"!state.hasPdfPreview\" hidden class=\"wp-block-file__embed\" data=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Parents.pdf\" type=\"application\/pdf\" style=\"width:100%;height:1010px\" aria-label=\"Embed of Coping Catalog I Feel Statements for Parents.\"><\/object><a id=\"wp-block-file--media-91605309-8ac9-4d99-98dd-b10746a8e1f6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Parents.pdf\">Coping Catalog I Feel Statements for Parents<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.copingcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Coping-Catalog-I-Feel-Statements-for-Parents.pdf\" class=\"wp-block-file__button wp-element-button\" download aria-describedby=\"wp-block-file--media-91605309-8ac9-4d99-98dd-b10746a8e1f6\">Download<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Behavior Iceberg (For Parents and Caregivers) The Behavior Iceberg is a simple concept designed to help parents and caregivers understand common internal experiences that can contribute to a child&#8217;s behaviors. 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